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Sheila (of Ephemera)'s avatar

Your outfits are stellar, and I love all the vintage pieces! I'm swooning over your agnes b suit. I loved Marc by Marc Jacobs - I see pieces of it here and there, and they're always good quality.

It does sound like you're in the midst of a transformation, Sophia. Having been through a few of those myself, if I may offer a word - just go forward. Change is the only constant.

"But as frustrated as I am, I am also fearful of making the wrong step. I think the fear stems from the uncertain foundations of change. I don't want to take a misstep, I don't want to fuck up. I'm having trouble accepting that this is how I work and without these lulls nothing would ever change."

I loved this, above, that you wrote - fear holds so many of us back! In the same way that you embraced the rain, embrace the fear. Everyone fucks up - it's okay to fuck up. And when it feels like so much change is on the doorstep - first, do nothing. :)

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The Mindful Closet's avatar

this is brilliant and relatable and deliciously comforting. thank you ♥️

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Cassie's avatar

I feel the exact same way. Refreshing to hear it from you! Thanks for making the time <3

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Isa's avatar

Don’t know if I’ve ever related so hard to someone’s description of how they feel when they’re in that period of transition/change!! From the shame and frustration of not being able to do the thing, to the fear of doing *anything* and getting it wrong!!

Thanks for the solidarity and the insight, and the reminder that it’s ok to wait out the rain, or run headlong into it.

There are no missteps.

I bet you’re about to level up ❤️‍🔥

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Isabelle Carson's avatar

As fabulous as ever!!

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lisette's avatar

love everything you do, thanks for coming back <3

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